crimes against women outside the home are on the rise. The reason is simple: more
women are working, traveling alone, and are active in outdoor activities
such as camping, hiking, and jogging. By virtue of exposure, women are just more
area near your car — or even en route to or from it — has become one of the prime
target areas for thugs, thieves, rapists and lunatics because that area offers more protection for your attacker than it does for you, especially
if you are in an unlit area, a secluded garage or between larger vehicles.
to a national crime victimization survey report titled, "Violence
Against Women," conducted and reported by Ronet Bachman, Ph.D., with
the U.S. Department of Justice in Washington, D.C., 43 percent of the attacks
on women were by strangers and occurred outside the home.
in the extensive survey are the following statistics:
percent of all attacks against women occurred between 6 p.m. and midnight, when most women leave work, are on their way out for an evening or are
on their way home.
percent of all attacks occur near home, including in private garages. This figure
also includes "follow-homes."
percent of victimization's occur in parking garages.
percent occur in open or public areas, such as parks.
who work or live in cities are considerably more vulnerable than those in rural
percent of all rapists used guns.
you're a women who thinks, "It'll never happen to me," or "That
only happens to other people," then there's a good chance that you would
make the perfect target for a would-be attacker. The number one reason that women
who think this way make prime targets is because it's easy for an attacker to
tell who they are by their body language.
these women pay no particular attention to where they park so they park in areas
that are secluded, not well-lit or between large vehicles — or park in the same
place all the time. It's important to change your parking spot from time to time
unless you're assigned a spot in a secured and/or guarded area.
These women also will walk to their vehicles alone at night. They fumble for car
keys inside their purse when they arrive at their car, leaving ample time for
an attacker to make a move. They don't pay attention to their surroundings. Some
even believe, if attacked, they could handle it.
makes women angry to have to alter their lives in order to be safe. But violence
at vehicles can and does happen with frequency. It provides a great deal of cover
for an attacker compared to an open attack.
it's a sad world we live in when we have to be on guard all the time, but pretending
the danger is not there doesn't make the reality go away. As in all things today,
the solution is education and awareness.
can be attacked including men. In fact, violent crime against men is on the rise
as well. More men experience carjacking than women, for example. In the past,
the odds of being attacked were slim, but today, it is just the opposite.
You Can Take
To ensure your personal safety and gain more control over your
life, then please remember to take the following steps:
you go somewhere during the day and know you'll be there until after dark, park in a location that will be safe at night, especially in an area that will
park between two vans or trucks, where you can't be seen getting in or out of
be too shy or too proud to ask someone to walk you to your car.
Most men are happy to oblige.
to your car with a group, making sure everyone is in their cars before you all
leave. There is safety in numbers.
you find yourself alone and afraid, call a friend or family member and wait somewhere
safe. If you feel the conditions are extreme, call the police.
you do have to walk alone, walk briskly and confidently, keeping your head up.
Giving the appearance of confidence usually deters would-be attackers. They prefer
weak, vulnerable and unsuspecting targets.
fumble for things in your purse while walking. Remain alert to your surroundings
at all times. In fact, if your purse has a long shoulder strap, wear it across
your chest, leaving both hands free.
your car keys clasped in your hand, with the door key protruding from between
your index and middle fingers. Not only will it make a good weapon, if necessary,
but you'll be ready to enter your car quickly when you arrive.
look in the back seat and floor of your vehicle through the window before you
lock the doors once you're inside.
on sidewalks that are well-lit, where there are other people. Walk near open businesses, so you can run into a restaurant or
store to escape. Conversely, do not walk too close to the street, where a car can approach
you from behind and someone can pull you in.
you don't have an alarm on your key fob, then get one.
possible, get a keyless remote entry/car alarm system and always have your cell
phone charged and on.
your cell phone programmed for 911 so that you only have to push one button in
case of an emergency.
Pepper spray has proven to be more effective and safer than mace. In a tense situation, mace can blow back in your own face, depending on the direction
of the wind.
you think you can't afford some of these items, compare their cost to the value
of your life. The investment could mean the difference between life or
death — or, mental anguish for you and your family and lifelong nightmares.
about self-defense classes. There are karate schools, self-defense classes, and
kick boxing classes available in every city in the U.S. Look in the yellow pages
under self-defense or call your local police department for recommendations.
martial arts studios will let you observe a class or even let you take a beginner's
class at no charge to see if it's for you. You don't need to be an athlete to
join, and you don't need to be a kid. While women ages 20-24 were the most likely
to experience all types of violent crime, women over age 65 were just as likely
to be a robbery victim as those between ages 35 and 64, according to the survey.
arts, for example, is not only a great way to learn self-defense, it also increases
confidence and discipline in other areas of life, including personal
and professional relationships. It offers cardiovascular exercise while
learning an art that will remain with you for life, both physically and mentally.
and a half million American women each year are the victims of crime, and those
are just the reported ones. So take charge of your life now, before it's too late.
And tell a friend. Knowledge is power, and there's power in numbers.
Caldwell trained and instructed in the Korean art of Tae Kwon Do for 15 years.
She holds a first-degree black belt. Inspired and compelled by her own violent
and abusive experiences as a young woman, Caldwell turned the tables to educate
herself and others on preventing violence at home, at work, and at your vehicle.
Today, Courtney's daughter Shannon Caldwell, is a court advocate and first response
member for a Michigan shelter for battered women and children.